⏩WHAT IS A MIND GAME⏪
People often think that winning over others means making others depressed and making them unhappy.So people wants to win psychologically over othersby ignoring.
by abusing.
by spreading gossips.
so these type of tricks employed by the people to make others unhappy are called as mind games.
By playing mind games over others ..
The people want to satisfy their ego which is a false self ,
they want to win the game by making you low.
Some times when you are in depressed state and when you are in hurt you may misunderstand the normal behaviour of others also as a mind game because you are one of the mind game players.
⏩WRONG BELIEF
The sad thing is that we are in the big wrong belief that some ones suffering is our winning
Some ones suffering is our happiness ,
we thnk that our ego will satisfy if they suffer.
Almost 99% of the people are in this wrong belief, they are searching their happiness in the suffering of their neighbours.
⏩THE GOLDEN RULE⏪
The golden rule you have to remember always is that
- the only way for you to be happy is making others happy.
- You can Not be happy whole heartedly at any cost by making others unhappy.
In order to stop these mind games first of all we have to accept ourselves .We have to accept our negativities Accept yourself as you are.Stop justifying yourself in the mind game.
⏩WHAT IS ACCEPTANCE⏪
If you accept yourself you get peace of mind and makes your journey very easy.
Accepting yourselves means accepting the good and bad qualities in you
Every man is loaded with bundles of weaknesses and also with strengths.
Almost all are very well aware of their weaknesses in fact we are more aware of our weaknesses then strengths
We can list our weaknesses very easily where as we have to search for our strengths to make a list
We are aware of our weaknesses but we do not like to bring them in to the light,we do not accept them.
⏩KNOW YOUR WEAKNESS⏪
Try to throw enough light on the weaknesses.then you can understand them easily and you can get rid of them .
So accept that one or the other time you played a mind game ,then you get a chance to over come it.
Otherwise always you will be heading in rhe wrong direction which makes you feel unhappy.
⏩MEET YOURSELF⏪
For this you have to meet yourself first.
Daily in your life you meet with number of people but you forget to meet one important person and that person is yourself.
Take few minutes to meet yourself daily.
If you meet yourself daily it will be very easy for you to read your qualities.
⏩POWER OF TOLERANCE⏪
So in this process of mind game,
If any one is trying to win over you ,if any one is trying to hurt you , if any one is trying to disturb you .....
What you have to do ...
Very simple and effective act you have to perform is not giving power to them to disturb you .
That means you have to develop the power of tolerance.
The more the power of tolerance the less disturbed you will remain
We should develop the power of tolerance because we are living in an imperfect world.
⏩ONE MORE GOLDEN RULE⏪
- Situations and people can not be according to the way you want them to be.
- Every thing doesn't happen in the way which you think as right.
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Let us see this from two angles one is from th players side and the other is from the victims side .
If you are the victim you can face all types of mind games very easily by making yourself more tolerant .
Secondly there is also a need for you to understand that the player of mind game may be also a victim of some type of hurt received from you earlier
⏩EXAMPLE FROM GENERAL LIFE⏪
Let us take a simple scene in our daily life where lot of relatives and friends gather together. On some occasion .
When the scene begins the mind game starts on a silly thing of wishing and receiving the wishes.
"If he wishes me first then i will wish him " this will be the line circulating in our mind in that type of occasion .
The sad thing is that people believe that If more number of people wishes me i wiil be happy and taking the wishes from more number of people turns out to be the status symbol.
It seems to be Very simple and silly thing but brings a lot of changes in the relationships .
⏩UNDERSTANDING THE OPPONENT⏪
Don't abuse the person who ignores you and who do not wishes you in any occasion there are lot of reasons behind ignoring you
reasons can be some thing like this
- The person himself might be in the great pain
- He might be upset .
We are just discussing about the mind status and trying to understanding them
⏩HOW TO BREAK THE MIND GAME⏪
And you can break this up very easily which you think as mind game by just wishing him firstly from your side .
The very important thing is you can wish him first irrespective of status and age.And very easily you can put a full stop for the game.
This can be done only if you have more strength of tolerance.
If you tolerate their ignoring you,exploiting you , then you can break the mind game very easily.
⏩DO NOT BECOME VICTIM⏪
This tolerance power doesn't work only in small scenes like wishing each other but also in lot of scenes in this imperfect world
If any one is trying to hurt you means ...
- he is in the disturbance ,
- he is unhappy
He is trying to transfer his problem to you.
it is in your hands whether to take it or reject it.
If you are weak that means if you do not have enough tolerant power immediately you will become a victim to his mind game .
If you are tolerant enough you will very easily reject the negative energy or you will take a step forward and put full stop to the game .
⏩ACTUAL STATE OF HUMAN BEING⏪
Remember that the actual state of human being is
- stability ,
- purity
- power
- and highly tolerant
So if you go back to your normal state it is impossible for any one to hurt you by playing mind games.
Do not move from your original state for the sake of others.
Do not give power to others to disturb you.
You have to work on yourself a little bit not to get affected with the Mind games.
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